First, I would like to thank all of you who came to say 'HBD' to me last week. I really appreciate that you still remember my birthday, even though most of you may recognize it by facebook on that day. I am glad that you do still not forget who I am, at least. I wish all wishes come true to all of you too. Have a good day and night, be healthy, and have a never-ending love (not only romantic one) !
Now, I will start complaining (in English!). Most of my foreign friends don't know how good (or bad) I can complain, since I am not good in English. However, I will try this time. If you have something else to do, it is OK.
Well, I just want to admit that I cannot remember people's birthdays. I think I can remember at most ten people's birthdays. One of birthdays I should be able to remember but I do not is my father's birthday. He was always too shy to have a birthday celebration. He always said that he does not want me to do something special to him. If I want to, please do it to my mom. He was really a sweet guy. Since then, I never said 'Happy Birthday' to my dad again. The date I remember about him becomes the date he passed away instead.
The point is not to make you and myself be in sorrow. I just want to say that some day may not be important for someone, but it may be very important for another. I think birthday is the day to recognize oneself... to state the existence of person. However, one may forget that there are so many people who make you become you today. If you want to include what to do in birthday, other than celebration, party or a big cake, I think one thing is to remind yourself that you cannot exist by yourself. Look around yourself and you will find out that there are so many people supporting you until today. First, I thought birthday is just another day, but because of all of you, I start to recognize how important the birthday is. I will not forget that, without family and friends, I cannot stand at this point.
One last thing, about facebook and HBD, I thought before that people who cannot remember friend's birthday and just type 'HBD' on wall when s/he accidently found out the birthday in fb is really bad. However, I now think that it is OK.... if it is at least 'Happy Birthday, Tee!' instead.
You see... it is all about complaints!
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หึหึ กูก็จำวันเกิดใครแทบไม่ได้เหมือนกัน - -" แต่กูจำได้นะว่ามึงเคยบอกว่าชอบให้มีชื่อมึงอยู่เวลาคนส่งเมสเสจมาสุขสันต์วันเกิดมึงงี้ 55
I always like listening to others' viewpoint. And, even if it's your complaint, it still reflects the Tee's angle toward the world; it really has something in it, rather than a garbage talk...
Thanks for sharing.
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มาฟังแกบ่นแล้วนะ เห็นด้วยมากๆ
แต่เราก็ไม่เคยหวังให้ใครจำวันเกิดเราได้เหมือนกัน
เพราะแต่ละคนก็มีเพื่อนเยอะมากๆ และเราเองก็แทบจำวันเกิดคนอื่นไม่ได้เลยเช่นกัน แค่ว่าถ้าบังเอิญเห็นมันขึ้นเป็นวันเกิดเพื่อนเราในfb
ก็จะแวะเวียนไป HBD มันก็เป็นฉะนี้แล
เราแทบจะจำวันเกิดคนอื่นไม่ค่อยได้หรอก
เมื่อก่อนต้องทำปฏิทินวันเกิดคนรู้จักไว้เลยทีเดียว
fb ก็ช่วยแก้ปัญหานี้ให้เรา ก็ดีเหมือนกัน
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I love your thought. like "the existence of you in the birthday". and abt facebook with BD, I never consider it before just feel so happy that there are so many friends still know my existence. that is too shallow of mine. but I think ppl who wish you they feel it even they can't actually remember. ppl always forget about number.
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